Child support laws and how the non- custodial parent isn't paying, the Mn laws aren't strict enou...

I have a special needs child and though i am not on state assistance, nor does my child get Social Security disability, but for parent that does recieve it,this particular type, the amount depends on the income which fluctuates often, but if the absent parent made theyre payments, the child support payments would probably be more than the SSD the other wouldnt have to worry about if she statedan extra if it would affect her SSD benifits, the child could be in a better situation, the parent could provide so much beeter for the child. With SSD a parent may get $200, the one month and he may get $1.42 the next month all because she stayed an extra 1 hour at work. Most absent parents don't have any felony convictions, have 2 arms, 2 legs, no medical conditions, a head and has job skills but can't seem to keep or get a job, or report a job which is more of the case, like most of these parents that owe back child support. There are some over 16000.00 past due and there are those who are $65000. or more behind and counting, all the agency can say is"we can't find him", there'ss on social media, legally marriages, some have valid DL, but but if any parent waiting, needing, deserving these payments were to be .50 over in income they're reduced or cut off, they find past employers of the custoial parent that hadn't been employed at a place for years, but you can't find these fathers or parents. Again i repeat, Mn laws on child support are one of the leaniest in the country. They don't believe in shaming these shameful people for whatever their reasons are, but im sure that child ifeels ashamed of standing in the food shelf line or getting on the school bus at homeless shelter is ashamed, so i guess that leaves the citizens of Mn taking care of their kids instead of them. Mn's idea of doing isn't enough or next to nothing but they're quick to make changes to food support or cash assistance to get closer to not footing the bill. The C.S laws gets nowhere or what they change is one problem, as if its only one problem, it's all mportant. These parents live very well underground or off the radar or with a spouse, dressed nice, eat well, able to travel because they hide behind the fact of not putting their name on property, utility bills, credit cards, expensive cars or wotking at cash to hand or under the table type of outfit operations. They hide assets in the spouse or girlfriend's name.while the child is living in terrible conditions, homeless, its not fair and it needs to stop, they need to be held responsible for these children. I personally can care less if this ink mistake a.k.a father never visits, calls or cares about the countless surgeries, education or what religion to follow ever, the laws can't make him love him, they can't even make him like my child but they can make him take care of him financially. Single parents, real single parents we get it done, whether we have a degree under our belts or not, we make it work everyday, to after school events, doctors appts, social events, colleges with or w/o medical conditions whatever the restriction, we do our jobs, because we love our children, i love my son very much, disability and all that comes with it, I don't it, we don't it because Mn makes us, but because we love them whole heartedly, unconditionallyally. They didn't ask to be here and they shouldn't have to live with anything less than that equally capable non-custodial parent does. No child should and as long as im at the wheel my son never will., like these other moms. These children our, children they didn't get here with one parent, one parent shouldn't have to foot the 18 year bill, nevertheless tat one parent hat was there doing it all, will be more than happy to have the reciept of their child's success.