A policy of separation from loved ones is unsustainable and causes irreparable harms.
The impact of indefinitely separating bi-national couples during the pandemic has been devastating. The Love Is Not Tourism Community Survey Report (December 2020), conducted by a monitoring and evaluation specialist and a public health specialist, sought to assess the impact of international travel bans on unmarried bi-national couples. [1] Survey respondents reported spending, on average, 9.25 months (37 weeks) separated from their partners. [2] Half of all survey respondents had not met with their partners since the pandemic began. [3]
The lost time has resulted in distinct irreparable losses. [4] Partners unable to be present during pregnancies and missing the birth of their children while kept abroad. [5] Partners suffering terminal illnesses and passing away without their partners. [6] Aging and ill partners losing their ability to implement critical life plans together, including marriage, moving in together, and having children. [7] Partners have also suffered a huge financial burden: an estimated $148 million USD were spent in 2020 in our efforts to reunite with loved ones. [8]
We can fix this.
Because of the grassroots advocacy efforts of separated bi-national couples, European leaders, the EU commission, and several Schengen Area countries have publicly acknowledged this crisis and implemented travel exemptions with safety protocols to reunite bi-national couples in ways that respect and address the ongoing COVID-19 health concerns. The current U.S. administration must do the same.
Our government must recognize that our partners and relationships, whether certified by marriage license or not, are essential, committed, and, therefore, worthy of travel exemptions too.
We (Ariel and Krishni) have diligently worked together to compose a formal letter addressing the current administration with our arguments and proposals.
Sign this petition as one step to help bi-national couples safely reunite, marry, have children, and continue building their lives and families. Tell the President that we need safe travel exemptions to address the severe disruptions and burdens endured by unmarried bi-national couples. Ask the current administration to publicly support the policy recommendations of the Giumarelli-Metivier letter and implement the requested changes during their end-of-the-month reviews.
We will continue to update you on the progress of our letter and other actions you can take so please stay tuned.
* This petition is not and shall not be construed as constituting legal advice or the provision of legal services or legal representation by its authors, Ariel Vita Giumarelli and Krishni Metivier (the “Authors”). This petition represents the personal views of its Authors and does not reflect the views or endorsement of any of the Authors’ affiliated employers, corporations, law firms or universities.
[1] See, Love Is Not Tourism: The Case for Binational Partner & Family Reunification in a Pandemic, Love Is Not Tourism Community Survey Report (Dec. 2020), available at
https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1aajW9BWjY_4muQb5r59DZcJBTJAPVHNG?usp=sharing.
[2] See Id. at 12 and 29.
[3] See Id.
[4] See Id. at 19-23.
[5] See Id. at 22.
[6] See Id.
[7] See Id.
[8] See Id. at 17.
