To: I would like the people in the Chastity and BDSM communities to ban together for a cause worth preotecing
Get Chaster.app to implement proper safety protocols for subs/lockees
Chaster.app needs to remove Houdini’s credentials from the Website and Discord server for allowing disrespect and abuse to flourish. With this Petition, I would like the Chaster.app, Chastity and BDSM Community, to condemn his actions and reinstate those people who he has banned from the discord and site unjustly and remove him from his position, permanently. There is no reason why The website who preaches about S.S.C (Safe, Sane, and Consensual) dynamics. But refuses provide resources or support to people who are abused by others and allow people to walk without consequences, despite evidence that says they are responsible for.
Recently, A member of the Chastity Community got abused and even non-consensually dominated by others. They allowed them to get seriously injured and emotionally abused by these people, even after being banned from the site and Discord server. The members and staff sat back and called them “crazy” “Nutz” and “ schizophrenic” for having a bad experience. Their own rules state that respect is paramount.Yet, they walk around as if those rules don’t apply to them as well. And since there is zero resources on both the website and Discord server, they seem to not care about how people are treated or care how others struggle with their issues, they need to add resources for those who need need help the most.
Houdini, a mod and Support member of the website/discord server, has been know and is notorious for being a power hungry member of the community. He won’t have a discussion with anyone who has a problem, he strictly blames people and will not allow them to prove otherwise, and has been know to support abusers in the Chastity community. He claims to enforce rules of conducted on the site. Instead he has allowed many people to abuse consensual dynamics and allowed Submissive‘A to be dominated non-consensually by others he tends to agree with. If Houdini is allowed to continue to be mod/support for the site, people like the members that was recently hurt in the server.
Alexis, though the server’s more thoughtful support team members and admin, is just as bad. But she will at the very least have a discussion with you.
However neither of them care about safety an none of them have tried to implement safety protocols for users to protect them out side of “report findom” and “report Harassment” they rather focus on unnecessary features for locks and the messaging system
Recently, A member of the Chastity Community got abused and even non-consensually dominated by others. They allowed them to get seriously injured and emotionally abused by these people, even after being banned from the site and Discord server. The members and staff sat back and called them “crazy” “Nutz” and “ schizophrenic” for having a bad experience. Their own rules state that respect is paramount.Yet, they walk around as if those rules don’t apply to them as well. And since there is zero resources on both the website and Discord server, they seem to not care about how people are treated or care how others struggle with their issues, they need to add resources for those who need need help the most.
Houdini, a mod and Support member of the website/discord server, has been know and is notorious for being a power hungry member of the community. He won’t have a discussion with anyone who has a problem, he strictly blames people and will not allow them to prove otherwise, and has been know to support abusers in the Chastity community. He claims to enforce rules of conducted on the site. Instead he has allowed many people to abuse consensual dynamics and allowed Submissive‘A to be dominated non-consensually by others he tends to agree with. If Houdini is allowed to continue to be mod/support for the site, people like the members that was recently hurt in the server.
Alexis, though the server’s more thoughtful support team members and admin, is just as bad. But she will at the very least have a discussion with you.
However neither of them care about safety an none of them have tried to implement safety protocols for users to protect them out side of “report findom” and “report Harassment” they rather focus on unnecessary features for locks and the messaging system
Why is this important?
Safety is key in every act imaginable, this includes sex acts. the BDSM and Chastity fetish/kinks were made to explore the extremes of sensations and experiences, under the tight conditions of safety and control and discipline. The website currently has no real resources on anything that beginners or vanilla users should have access to. To not just protect themselves, but to educate people about what they’re getting into and what they might experience and how to Safely, Sanely and Consensually express themselves and the extremes they might experience. They don’t even provide mental health resources that could explain what a person can feel when in sub space or even in sub drop and how to appropriately handle in an healthy way. With this petition I hope to change that.